After break up, people want to know what happened. Who left whom? Who is the ‘loser’?
By look desperate and look not happy with this situation its like saying “I wasn’t good enough”
We tend to feel ‘win’ after break up and put ourselves on a “silent competition”, a very natural reaction to a break up.
You should not try to win a competition between you and your ex. Because there is no competition, if your ex is acting like there is a competition, let them think so.
It doesn’t matter who is going out more. It doesn’t matter who is more happy. It doesn’t matter who has more friends or dates.
All that matters is that you enjoy your life and are willing to make it batter (: